Etta M. Spellman

Etta Margaret Mack Spellman transitioned into eternal glory with our Lord and Savior on December 6, 2018. She was a longtime resident and pillar in the Riverhead community, and she was a member of the Riverhead and Southampton Churches of Christ for over 50 years. Her Christianity and her family was the backbone of her life. Margaret was a Sunday School Teacher, Youth Counselor, Ladies Day Coordinator, Bible Class Facilitator, Youth Group Representative for the Easternnaires, and a proud member of the Soul Singers Choral Group at the Riverhead Church of Christ.
Margaret was born on October 14, 1933 in Darlington, South Carolina to the late Walter Mack and Versella Ham. She was predeceased by her loving husband of 60 years William S. Spellman Sr., daughter Veronica Spellman Johnson, son John Mack Spellman, all 12 Siblings, and grandsons Ernest Johnson and Jailyn Price. Margaret was the youngest of 13 children raised in Hartsville, Sc and was educated through the Darlington County Public School System. She enjoyed playing basketball, as she was one of the starting players on her high school basketball team. Margaret was a scholar who had a love for Science, Math, English, the Choir and Home Economics. Also, she always enjoyed singing in the choir and being an active member at the Lawson Grove Baptist Church in Hartsville SC. As a result of her outstanding academic progress, Margaret graduated from the Historic Butler High School, in 1951 and was immediately selected to attend Bethune Cookman University’s Educational and Industrial Training School for nursing. Margaret received her Vocational Certificate in Nursing, and began working in South Carolina. Maragret always wanted to be a nurse, to help people with their healthcare needs.
After working for some years in South Carolina, Margaret decided to move to New York with her older siblings. Margaret’s cousin, Jazz Legend Ella Johnson wanted Margaret to sing with her group at the Savoy Ballroom in Harlem, NY, and she did for a short period of time. It was Margaret’s voice that helped to make the #1 Ballad, ”Since I Fell for You” a song that trended throughout the United States and abroad.
Margaret continued to utilize her nursing skills in the Bronx, to support both her relatives in New York and South Carolina. She worked as a nurse and a file clerk for a local nursing facility, and a housekeeper at the Hilton Hotel in Manhattan. Not soon after Margaret’s arrival to New York, she met the love of her life William S. Spellman, Sr. and they soon married on September 2, 1956. Margaret and Bill as they were affectionately known, lived in the Bronx, NY for over 15 years until they acquired a better way of life for their growing family in Riverhead. Margret worked as a seamstress in a local dress shop until her nursing position became available in Riverhead. She continued to enhance her healthcare skills, and decided to work as a volunteer on the Riverhead Ambulance Corps. Margaret was the First African American to become a Volunteer Emergency Medical Technician on the Riverhead Ambulance Corps. She worked as a volunteer for over 10 years helping the citizens of the Riverhead community.
Additionally, Margaret was also an active member with the NAACP and the National Council of Negro Women. Margaret was also employed as a Licensed Practical Nurse with the Suffolk County Health Department, Upton Medical Center, and the Brookhaven National Laboratory. Margaret had a love for helping young people in the community and assisting her friends with caring for their children.
After working for over 30 years, Margaret decided to retire from the Suffolk County Health Department, and become self employed as a Private Duty LPN and work at her leisure as a Avon Representative. She enjoyed visiting patient’s homes and assisting them with their personal healthcare needs. She was always a kindhearted caregiver, who would go above and beyond for her patients and family members.
Always the protector and guardian angel Margaret will continue to watch over her loved ones. Margaret was the matriarch of the Spellman family, a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, aunt, cousin, sister, and friend whose life revolved of her Christianity and family. Her love, compassion and generosity of spirit were felt by all who knew her. Margaret touched the lives of many, and will be missed tremendously. Her Christian faith was a mainstay in her life. This was the main reason why she was a phenomenal woman. We thank God for blessing Etta with 85 years of life!
Margaret leaves to cherish her most precious memories to her children: William S. Spellman, Sr., Joseph L. Spellman, Valerie m. Spellman, Brandon E. Spellman, Veleda B. Spellman and Vedette D. Spellman. Two Grandchildren that Margaret and Bill raised as their own, Kevin L. Johnson and Elisa M. Spellman. One Brother in law, Aaron Hank Brown (Joan), One Brother Eli Briggs (Rosemary), 19 grandchildren, 17 great-grandchildren, one God Daughter Connie Wilson, and a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, brothers and sisters in Christ, and friends.

Services for Margaret have been entrusted to Tuthill-Mangano Funeral Home, Riverhead, New York. Margaret’s visitation has been scheduled for Friday December 14, 2018 from 10:00 am-12:00 pm at the Riverhead Church of Christ, 1136 Ostrander Avenue, Riverhead, NY. Immediately following the visitation at 12:00 pm a “Celebration of Life-Homegoing Service” will be held. Interment will be conducted at Calverton National Cemetery.
The family would like to thank everyone that has extended their love during this transition, including all of the Churches of Christ, Stonybrook University Hospital, and the Riverhead Ambulance Corps.