Gabriel J. Barila

Gabriel J. Barila, a beloved husband, brother, uncle, and friend, passed away on November 20, 2024 at the age of 72, leaving behind a legacy that will forever resonate in the hearts of those who knew him. Born on July 24, 1952, in Brooklyn, NY, Gabe's life was a tapestry woven with love, music, and an unwavering spirit.

Gabe's journey began when he met his high school sweetheart, Rosemarie (Nee Abbatiello). Their love blossomed into a beautiful marriage that lasted over 49 years, a testament to their deep commitment and affection for one another. Together, they created a life filled with laughter, joy, and shared passions. Gabe's love for sports shone brightly, as he was an ardent supporter of the Jets, the Mets, and the Islanders. His enthusiasm for these teams brought countless moments of excitement and camaraderie to family gatherings and game days spent with loved ones.

A man of many talents, Gabe was a gifted musician whose heart beat in rhythm with the drumsticks he so passionately wielded. Music was not just a pastime for him; it was a profound part of his identity. Whether he was performing or simply sharing music with family and friends, his passion was contagious and filled their lives with joy.

Beyond music, Gabe had a natural curiosity and talent for technology. He enjoyed diving into computers, always eager to explore every detail and learn all there was to know. His fascination with audio equipment labeled him as an audiophile; he delighted in the nuances of sound, taking pride in creating the perfect listening environment wherever he went.

Gabe's adventurous spirit found solace in the beautiful surroundings of Montauk, where he cherished the serene escape this coastal haven provided. Additionally, he held a special place in his heart for Disney World, where his enthusiasm made him the park's number one fan. The joy he experienced there was a reflection of his vibrant personality, one that sought happiness and fun in every corner of life. Gabe was also a SUPER star trek fan and a Trekkie.

He is survived by his devoted wife, Rosemarie; his sister, Carmela, and her husband, Charles Hall; his brother, Theodore Barila; and his cherished nieces, Melissa Kaufman and Jessica Mujica. Gabe is also remembered by a multitude of brothers-in-law: Mario Abbatiello, Ralph Abbatiello, Raymond Abbatiello, and Albert Abbatiello, as well as his dear sister-in-law, Annette, and her husband, Bob Padich. He is predeceased by his brother in law, Vincent Abbatiello.

Visitation will be held at Mangano Family Funeral Home located at 1701 Deer Park Avenue, Deer Park, NY 11729 on Friday, November 22, 2024 from 6:00 PM to 9:30 PM. Another visitation will be held at Mangano Family Funeral Home on Saturday, November 23, 2024 from 2:00 PM to 4:30 PM and 7:00 PM to 9:30 PM, with a prayer service at 8:00 PM.

Although Gabe leaves this world, the impact he made on the lives of those around him is immeasurable. His warmth, humor, and infectious smile will be deeply missed. Gabe J. Barila will forever remain a cherished memory, a loving spirit that continues to inspire all who were fortunate enough to know him.